I am also wondering why out of the blue my wife would request this? The exquisite feeling of sticking your cock in that soft, velvet-like envelope and hearing your wife or girlfriend moan, Yes baby, that's it. Do not start out pounding her like a raw piece of meat. I'm recommending that you do something to take the edge off, to lighten things up and feel good. Plus, when it comes time for her period, there's a week off from sex that I don't need. They want the whole neighborhood in their ass, or at least the entire produce department. I won't let you fall into this trap.
Sure the first hole is plenty good! Just start off with the head of your cock inside her beautiful asshole and let her sphincter muscles adapt to it. I'm sure you've read lots of material on anal sex if you have an interest in it, like me. A good experience will bring you others. Women have one nice, soft, wet hole — shouldn't that be enough? Walk on the wild side a little. I highly recommend Astroglide, which you can buy next to the condoms and the drug store.
Be curious and compassionate about her own interests and any concerns and address them with thought. Send private anonymous feedback to the author click here to post a public comment instead. But if the hang up is that she once tried it with you or an old boyfriend and has 'painful' memories of the experience, this can be overcome with some knowledge and technique. But suppose you've been there and done that a thousand times already. Sometimes she wants a nice and slow fuck.
It hurt her like hell and we didn't try it again for years. And let me tell you, as an aside, that no matter how big or small your cock is, it feels big in her ass! Anal sex is not an every time event for most women anyway. Very best bet — go buy yourself a vibrator if you don't own one already what? She is willing to do it about twice a month on average. Feedback sent successfully - click here to write another. If she can do something to excite and please him, that doesn't involve pain or injury, she might be more receptive than you think. I read a lot about anal sex to her, but it always seemed like 'Advice from your doctor about anal sex.
After along time of attempting anal sex with the wife she finally gave it a try about a year ago. They'll even tell you where to by it online. I'm talking about dinning on her ass! You'll make the same mistakes and wind up back at square one. Why go through all the aggravation. I've had some of my best times down there. If you're doll is on all fours, you may have to squat over her to get your meat in right.
Start off with a cocktail, if you drink. Just make sure to hold back if she isn't super into it, you want her to be super turned on the whole time. While I did aim this mostly at guys, you ladies should know that quite a few guys are interested in stuffing your ass full of cock. No, I'm not suggesting you get her drunk and sloppy, that won't work well it might! So boys and girls, talk to your partners about your anal desires, find the ones who want what you want and have the greatest time with your butts. As an ass man you need to keep lube on hand at all times, do not run dry pun intended if you couldn't tell. A good women likes to please her man, just as, hopefully a good man takes care of his gal. Hell, she plays with my ass and it feels great! Just because she'll give it a try doesn't mean you should go about it in the same plodding way you did the first time.
If you are already in a relationship that has never brought up the subject, do so now. There's no lubrication down there — it's not the vagina — you've got to bring your own. Communication avoids the awkwardness of wondering if your making her feel good! Usually she will let me fuck her ass slowly for a few minutes and she has me pull out. After you've hit the jackpot, and stop smiling after a week, don't go back to the well too quick. Again, easier is better at first.
Take care of her and she will do the same for you. I think her exact words were, Don't ever touch me down there or I'll fart all over you. A drink or two can really help. In my experience, women are afraid of anal sex, at least initially. It enhanced her orgasm tremendously. It's slippery as an eel, and will let you slide right in.
Let her know to talk to you, that you want to know how she is feeling the whole time, the more worked up she is the better, if you can maintain a high state of arousal in her you are going to be deep in her ass in no time. Lastly, and I hope no women take this the wrong way. The curve or lack of one of your penis can be a factor here so be considerate, she will feel better and be a ton more likely to let you in the back door more often if you pay attention to this. Hey buddy, that's what I'm here for! Now, I've read all the Penthouse and Literotica stories about all the women who just love anal sex, even the first time. I start by eating her ass like its an ice cream cone! Experience something sort of nasty for a change. Most of us aren't out to hurt you, we want you to be into it too. Any ass man will have at a minimum read up on the subject and should be ready to talk about what you know and what you don't know.